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Sr. High Parent Update – Messy Week 1

Posted by on Jan 20, 2011 in Parents | 0 comments

MESSY – Week 1

Life can be MESSY.  We are confronted daily with the hurt and the pain that is all around us.  We are faced with decisions between right and wrong constantly throughout each day.  We deal with questions all the time – What is right? What is wrong? Who should I listen to? What do I do? Who can I trust?  In this messy world that we live in, how does God want us to live and function?  I believe that as we gain a better understanding of what the Bible says about the world that we live in, we will be able to function better within it.  Not just to “survive” within this world, but to make an incredible impact on it.  So … fasten your seatbelt and hold on tight as we dive into the Bible and hear what God has to say about this Messy world that you and I live in.

Parents, here are some questions that you may want to use to generate some discussion with your youth …

1)   Take some time to describe the “messy” world that we live in.  Try to identify things that are “messy”

2)   Why do you think that there is so much hurt and pain in the world?

3)   Were you aware of the things that we talked about before tonight?

4)   Why does this matter and how should it affect the way you live?

5)   Does an understanding of the “behind the scenes” help you at all?

Leaders, here are some content questions that you may want to use to get into the content of the message …

1)   How are angels like us?

2)   How are angels different from us?

3)   What is the primary role of angels in the world today?

4)   What are some of the things that the Bible tells us about Satan?

5)   How do these things put you on guard against Satan?

6)   How do these things remove some fears that you may have about Satan?

Some helpful answers to the content questions

  • There are Angels
    • How are angels like us?
      • Worship God (Heb 12:22)
      • They obey God’s word (psalm 103:20)
      • They are a part of God’s creation
      • They are a part of God’s army
  • How are angels different?
    • They are spirits – they do not have physical bodies (Heb1:14) (Luke 24:39)
  • What is their role?
    • They guard us (psalm 91:11)
    • Worship God with us
    • There is Satan and demons
      • What are demons
        • They are evil angels
        • They were created good
        • They chose evil and followed Satan by being cast into hell (2 Peter (2:4)
  • What about satan?
    • Satan is the head of the demons
    • Referred to as
      • The devil
      • The serpent
      • Beelzebub
      • Evil one
      • Father of lies
  • How do you guard yourself against satan?
    • Resist him (1 Peter 5:9)
    • Give him no opportunity (Eph 4:27)
      • Not even a foothold
  • Should you be afraid of satan?
    • No no no no no no
    • God is HUGE and satan is tiny
      • “Greater is he that is in you than he that is in the world.”  (1 John 4:4)
    • God will be victorious over satan
    • It is like reading the end of the book and knowing that God wins and we will be victorious with Him
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Opposite of Gratitude – Reggie Joiner

Posted by on Dec 2, 2010 in Parents, Youth Workers | 0 comments

I’m not sure how to make anyone feel grateful. My parents told me that I should be grateful a number of times, but telling me to be grateful didn’t make me feel grateful. Honestly, there were times that I felt guilty because I didn’t feel gratitude.  I actually thought something was wrong with me. Why didn’t I feel grateful when I should feel grateful? Then at some point I grew up and made a simple discovery. “The emotion of feeling grateful doesn’t happen naturally. It is a result of the deliberate choice of demonstrating gratitude. In other words, you don’t show gratitude because you feel grateful, you feel grateful because you show gratitude.

I know it may surprise you if I say I have a selfish nature. Are you shocked? For those of you who are pure in all of your motives and never struggle with your egos, I am sure you are disappointed in me. But I have struggled with the issue of selfishness for a while, ever since I was born. So for me, gratefulness is basically the result of overcoming some attitudes that can get buried deep in my human nature. These are attitudes that are the opposite of gratitude. If they go unchecked, they can result in a self-centered and frustrating lifestyle.

The “Never Enough” Attitude

This attitude is about our love affair with stuff, and our habit of being consumed with a materialistic mindset. It’s the trap of thinking that our happiness is connected to what we have, not who we are. We may tend to put more value on our things than we do our relationships. It is the reason why your children can get mad because they didn’t get popcorn when you just took them to the movie. We live in a culture that fuels this attitude, and it has the potential to crowd out living simple and grateful lives.

The “I Deserve It”Attitude

It’s easy to start believing that we automatically deserve things. It can happen to an individual, or a nation. It’s just the natural progression of a society that raises children who get whatever they want. Over time, there is a tendency to start believing that you deserve everything that you have. Think about it. Why should you be grateful for something that you are entitled to have? Why should you be grateful for a job that doesn’t pay you what you think you are worth? Why should you be grateful for your car when so many people you know are driving one better? We are programmed to believe that we deserve the best.

The “It’s All About Me” Attitude

Maybe you were raised in the kind of “child-centered” home that convinced you everything exists for you. It’s easy to grow up and embrace the notion that the entire planet somehow revolves around you and your issues. It rarely occurs to you that you should consistently sacrifice and put other people’s needs before your own needs. It is also difficult to comprehend that you have probably benefitted in numerous ways, because others have invested or sacrificed to help you.

The point is all of these attitudes can sabotage your potential to be grateful. And more than likely you can’t “feel” your way out of them. You have to take specific action. You have to become intentional about showing gratitude if you hope to become a grateful person.

If you want to battle the “never enough” attitude, you have to become a person who buys less and gives more.

If you want to get over the “I deserve it” attitude you should do your job diligently, celebrate the small things, keep your expectations in check.

What about the “it’s all about me” attitude? Well you can start by making a list this Thanksgiving of all the people that have made small and big differences in your life. Then write one person a note, or make a call every week to say, “Thankyou” for what they have done in your life. You could also schedule some time to help someone else. Make sure it’s someone who can’t do anything for you in return.

Remember, you will never be grateful until you do something about showing gratitude.

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ROOTED: Week 4 – Forgiveness

Posted by on Nov 29, 2010 in Parents | 0 comments

We are continuing our teaching series called:  “ROOTED: Building a lifelong faith” – Forgiveness

A few things we talked about:

1. We talked about the meaning of forgiveness and why it’s so difficult to do.

2. We walked through the scripture Matthew 18:21-39

3.  We talked through the idea that as Christians we have the ultimate example of forgiveness that comes from Christ on the cross.  How can we not forgive everyone for the things they’ve done to us when we have such an example to follow?

4. We talked about what bitterness and unforgiveness can do to us if we hold onto it.

Verse:
Matthew 18:21-39

(The Message)

A Story About Forgiveness
21At that point Peter got up the nerve to ask, “Master, how many times do I forgive a brother or sister who hurts me? Seven?”
22Jesus replied, “Seven! Hardly. Try seventy times seven.
23-25“The kingdom of God is like a king who decided to square accounts with his servants. As he got under way, one servant was brought before him who had run up a debt of a hundred thousand dollars. He couldn’t pay up, so the king ordered the man, along with his wife, children, and goods, to be auctioned off at the slave market.
26-27“The poor wretch threw himself at the king’s feet and begged, ‘Give me a chance and I’ll pay it all back.’ Touched by his plea, the king let him off, erasing the debt.
28“The servant was no sooner out of the room when he came upon one of his fellow servants who owed him ten dollars. He seized him by the throat and demanded, ‘Pay up. Now!’
29-31“The poor wretch threw himself down and begged, ‘Give me a chance and I’ll pay it all back.’ But he wouldn’t do it. He had him arrested and put in jail until the debt was paid. When the other servants saw this going on, they were outraged and brought a detailed report to the king.
32-35“The king summoned the man and said, ‘You evil servant! I forgave your entire debt when you begged me for mercy. Shouldn’t you be compelled to be merciful to your fellow servant who asked for mercy?’ The king was furious and put the screws to the man until he paid back his entire debt. And that’s exactly what my Father in heaven is going to do to each one of you who doesn’t forgive unconditionally anyone who asks for mercy.”

Questions to talk about at home with your kids

  1. What is God’s ultimate example of forgiveness towards us?
  2. Why is it so hard to forgive others who have done mean things to us?
  3. Why do you think God calls us to practice forgiveness towards those to hurt us?
  4. How are we showing the world Jesus love when we practice forgiveness?
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