Sr. High Parent’s Update – April 24th

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Static – Week 2

April 24 2013



The reality is that friendships are super important.  It is important in scripture and it is important in society today and especially for teenagers; they value friendships a lot.  Each of us must recognize that we need to choose our friendships carefully because each friendship has an effect on us either positive or negative.  It is important for each of us to choose carefully a few people who are willing to walk close with us and to help us move towards a healthy relationship with God.



  • To get to know your group and build relationships
  • To recognise the impact that friends have on us
  • To encourage the students to choose their friends wisely


Conversation Starters…

  • High’s and lows
  • What station was the most fun for you?


Dig a Little Deeper…

  • Is there anything that stuck out to you from the message tonight?
  • Can you think of a friend who has a positive influence on your life?
  • Can you think of a friend who has a negative influence on your life?
  • “Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future”
    • Do you agree with this statement?
    • Why do you agree or disagree?
    • Thinking of the chair illustration …
      • Would you say that you have more people pulling you down?
      • Would you say that you have more people pulling you up?
      • Are there people in your life that you are walking alongside with?
      • Why do you think it is important to be a part of a small group throughout your life?


  • You could share about a time in your life when friends were there for you
  • You could share about a time in your life when friends led you down the wrong path
  • You could share some personal experience to explain why choosing the right friends is super important



  • Pray with your students
  • What changes could you make moving forward?


Key Scriptures …

Proverbs 18:24

One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Proverbs 17:17

A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity

Proverbs 16:28

A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.

Proverbs 12:26

The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.

Matt 28:19-20

Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”


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